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Archive for November, 2013

Almost everyone is admitting that Mr. Imran khan today delivered the best speech in the parliamentary history of Pakistan; and it was one of the few best speeches ever delivered in Pakistan, by any leader.

Integrity is to act according to what is right and wrong.

“Life is an echo. What you send out, comes back. What you sow, you reap. What you give, you get. What you see in others, exists in you. Remember, life is an echo. It always gets back to you. So give goodness. ”

Unknown –

DON’T SETTLE FOR ORDINARY!
By David McNally
from The Push
Encouragement can come in many forms. Sometimes it is the courageous, honest words of a friend or loved one that help us make a course correction away from self-defeating and limiting behavior. Such words were spoken to me one cold and windy morning. Perhaps, a little background might help.

As a young person I was very ambitious. Impatience, fueled by an intense desire to succeed, led me to forego college and start my first business straight out of high school. I was not suspicious or afraid of “get rich quick” schemes; on the contrary, I wanted to get rich, and the quicker, the better.
By my mid-twenties my drive had propelled me to a level of success that included fancy cars, a beautiful home, international travel and Europe as my playground. All this was clear evidence that I had joined the ranks of those who had “made it.”

At the age of twenty-eight my business failed. Having merged my whole identity with the business, when it disintegrated, so did I. Besides having nothing, I felt I was nothing. The downhill slide was slow, steady and painful. Convinced that I had blown the most wonderful opportunity life would ever present, I saw no promise in the future whatsoever.

I took refuge in late nights out with friends, which severely threatened my marriage. Ironically, it was my wife who rescued me.

One morning I came to the breakfast table nursing a king-sized hangover—not exactly a time when one is looking for advice! However, my receptiveness was of no concern to my wife who was determined to confront me with the truth.

Quietly, slowly and succinctly, she uttered words that will indelibly be imprinted on my mind: “David, you are becoming so ordinary.”

Ordinary! Ordinary! The words seared my fuzzy brain and haunted me for the rest of the day. At my core I had long believed that there was no such thing as an ordinary human being. “What have you been doing?” I asked myself. “Two years ago you were on top of the world and now you have plunged to inconceivable depths.”

Insight and learning comes only when one is open and ready. My wife’s words had left me a vulnerable yet willing student. I immediately received what is known as a blinding glimpse of the obvious. So life had been unfair to me? So what? Had it not been unfair to millions of others? Had many of them not faced far worse circumstances? Had they accepted defeat?

My reaction for two years had been to not only be a victim but to remain a victim. My behavior of blaming, excuse making and finger pointing was getting me nowhere. The guidepost to a positive future flashed like a neon sign—personal responsibility. It was a road that I knew would not be easy, but upon which I was ready to embark without the slightest hesitation.

Since that time, I have built a successful new business, written several books, produced films and been a guest speaker at conferences all over the world. There has been no greater learning for me, than within the events and circumstances of our lives is the wisdom upon which to build our futures.

My life has taught me that mistakes don’t matter, failure doesn’t matter. What matters is that we continue to move forward and grow from our experiences. Hal Prince, the famous Broadway producer said: “Anyone who hasn’t had a failure is an amateur.”

My wife, Jo, has now passed away. Her words from many years ago, spoken with candor yet great love, are my ongoing encouragement to settle for nothing less than the extraordinary.

“The doors we open and close each day decides the lives we live”.

Don’t Extend the Deadline—Plan Better

You may want to rethink postponing that deadline. Although it’s a relief to be “given” more time, we rarely use extensions wisely; instead, we lose motivation, procrastinate, and wind up facing the same situation again later. Address poor time planning with these tips:
Shorten the distance to your ultimate goal. This will keep motivation high, and keep the pressure on for procrastinators. Impose interim deadlines, breaking a larger objective up into mini-targets spaced out strategically in time. These deadlines need to be meaningful, though— if it’s no big deal to miss the deadline, then it’s not a real deadline.
Become a realistic judge of how longs things will take. Consider how long it’s taken to complete similar projects in the past, and try to identify the ways in which things might not go as planned. Break the project down in detail, estimating the time needed to complete each step and allowing for snags in your schedule.

Adapted by HBR from “Here’s What Really Happens When You Extend a Deadline,” by Heidi Grant Halvorson.

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”

— Aristotle

60 meters boundaries have made the game of international cricket a mockery.

Wake up ICC before people become disenchanted with this glorious game.

An excerpt given below from a news item published by the daily “The Nation”, exposes the worth of cricket records, which are formed on various small and large size unstandardised grounds, having different boundary sizes ranging from 60 to 90 meters.

Here, we must not forget that games like football, hockey, tennis and badminton etc., are not played on different size fields. If the playing areas are not standardised, how can anyone claim that he has created a world record.

It is high time that ICC takes up this important issue of various boundary sizes, used in all forms of cricket and rule that minimum of 80 meters and a maximum of 90 meters boundary sizes are a must, for any match to be recognised as an international game, in all forms of cricket.

Excerpt of the daily “The Nation” published 3 Nobember, 2013 is detailed s belo:-

“India hit 19 sixes in a ground having 60 metre boundaries as they racked up 383; Australia replied with 326, the ninth time in 11 innings that a team passed 300 this series. And though they lost by a sizeable margin in the end, they did not lose the six-hitting contest. Australia’s 19 blows over the Chinnaswamy Stadium’s tiny boundaries helped smash the record for the most sixes in a one-day international. India and New Zealand had hit 31 in Christchurch in 2009; India and Australia hit a numbing 38 today. Vinay Kumar’s 1 for 102 in nine overs were the worst figures by an Indian in an ODI; two Australians were close to owning the record for the quickest 50 by an Australian, and James Faulkner’s 57-ball 100 was his country’s fastest century. It was hard to make sense of it all.”

“Anger is an acid that can do more harm

to the vessel in which it is stored

than to anything on which it is poured.”

“Anger and intolerance are the twin enemies

of correct understanding.”

“Happiness is the only good.

The time to be happy is now.

The place to be happy is here.

The way to be happy is to make others so.”